1. Does he have a relationship with God Yes/No
*Yes-move forward to the next question.
*No-Let him go and don’t advance to the next questions.
2. Does God come first in his life Y/N
Yes-advance to the next question.
No-let him go and don’t go to the next question.
3. Is my time with him distracting my relationship from the Lord Y/N
Yes- let him go and don’t advance to the next question
No- advance to the next question
4. Do you trust this guy Y/N
Y- advance to the next question
N- let him go and don’t advance to the next question.
5. Do have doubts about this guy Y/N
Y- Let him go and don’t advance to the next question.
N-Advance to the next question
6. Do you use google to analyze his behavior Y/N.
Y-Let him go and don’t advance to the next question
N-Advance to the next question.
7. Are you having self-esteem issues at the same time that you are talking to this guy?
Y-let him go and work on yourself
N-continue to talk to him.
LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this! Especially the last question and the suggestion to “let him go and work on yourself” if you’re having self esteem issues. Its so easy to think that a good relationship (Christian, of course! hehe) is the answer to all our problems and insecurities… but it’s not. I’m learning that the time to really invest in nurturing myself spiritually, emotionally, and physically is now… before attempting to share myself with another =)
I completely agree with you, that’s why am letting the Lord complete me so I don’t try to find fulfillment in anything but God. Seek first his Kingdom and everything else will be added. Thanks for your comments!!