Ladies,
We fantasize about our weddings.
Yet, we somehow forget that our marriage is more important.
It makes no sense to spend thousands of dollars or naira on a wedding only for it to end in a divorce.
There’s nothing wrong in spending a lot of money on your wedding..
But, you need to INVEST more into your marriage to make sure it works.
Weddings are beautiful..
Every girl dreams of their Cinderella moment on their wedding day.
Cinderella on your wedding day,
and an Evil queen after your wedding makes no sense. 
Don’t get me wrong spend as much as you want on your wedding;
However, you need to invest more in your marriage prior and after the wedding to make sure your marriage works.
Your Wedding is a one day event.
if you’re African like me.. A two day event.
For other cultures a multiple day event.
Point is all our wedding festivities will come to an end.
Your Marriage should be forever.
Which one deserves more investment??
Malachi 2:16-“I hate divorce” says the Lord.
Amen and amen! =) I’ve been reading a lot about marriage lately as well as talking to godly married women that I know… both older and younger. I love to hear all the things they wish they knew before they were married such as how marriage is not a cure-all for everything, how important it is to get close to God now before marriage, the importance of respect + submission, and so forth. I didn’t have the best example of a godly marriage growing up (my parents eventually divorced) so I desire to learn all I can about what it means to be a godly wife + helpmeet with the hopes that God has marriage as a part of His perfect will for me =)
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