Forever the Best Father’s Day Gift

Father's Day 2017Father’s day is coming up!! My amazing  father will be here for father’s day.
The best gift a woman can give her children is to pick a good man for her future children. I think it is not wise to be having unprotected sex with any man you wouldn’t be proud to give your children as a father.

Please avoid these types of guys when you want children:

1. A guy who is currently not taking care of his children from previous relationships
2. A guy who has no financial capital to provide for your child
3. A guy has a crazy baby’s mama he cannot control.
4. A male who is obviously sleeping around with every female he comes in contact with.
5. A guy who doesn’t want kids.
6. A guy who is not prepared to have a baby.
7. A guy who has a reckless lifestyle with no clear plans of where he is going with his life.
8. A guy who is not responsible for himself. He has no control over his finances. His mother or father pays for this upkeep.
9. He doesn’t have any long-term goals that include you. If you want to get married before kids. He has no goals of marrying you.
10. The guy who you know obviously doesn’t like you. If you like him and think you can convert him to like you after a child, think again!! If you like him and he doesn’t like you, you are only hurting yourself having a baby with him.

Think about the type of father you want to give your children. Give your children a man they can be proud of. Give them a father who will do them right all the days of their life. Give them a man who will fight for them.

The best gift you can give your future children is to pick a good man to be their father!!

To all great fathers out there.. God bless You for all you do!

With love,

9jagirl4real

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2 thoughts on “Forever the Best Father’s Day Gift

  1. I wanted to know how Nigerian men treat their girlfriends. So this man is 21 years old. He made his girlfriend who is also Nigerian give him head so he could post it on Snapchat. He is telling her oh its okay for me to record this and post this online. She knows she is being recorded because he is facing the camera at her and telling oh its okay and patting her on the shoulder. Two days later he posts a picture of them after the video release saying under the caption oh I love my girlfriend so much I never felt this way about anyone and thanking god for this person in his life. He did this to his girlfriend within 7 or 8 months of them dating. This guy has gotten head before so why would he videotape his girlfriend whom he claims to love. I overheard him say to a girl once that he wouldn’t date a certain celebrity or any celebrity for that matter with a sextape because he thinks its gross. Is he lying about loving his girlfriend? His family is Christian and are religious. Plus he’s been going to church and he knows the difference between right and wrong. Is this how a Nigerian man would treat someone they love especially a fellow Nigerian?

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