Category Archives: Life

Christain Girl Move-On Checklist..

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The questionnaire1. Does he have a relationship with God Yes/No

*Yes-move forward to the next question.
*No-Let him go and don’t advance to the next questions.

2.  Does God come first in his life Y/N

Yes-advance to the next question.
No-let him go and don’t go to the next question.

3. Is my time with him distracting my relationship from the Lord Y/N

Yes- let him go and don’t advance to the next question
No- advance to the next question

4.     Do you trust this guy Y/N
Y- advance to the next question
N- let him go and don’t advance to the next question.

5.   Do have doubts about this guy Y/N
Y- Let him go and don’t advance to the next question.
N-Advance to the next question

6.    Do you use google to analyze his behavior Y/N.
Y-Let him go and don’t advance to the next question
N-Advance to the next question.

7. Are you having self-esteem issues at the same time that you are talking to this guy?

Y-let him go and work on yourself
N-continue to talk to him.

12.12.12

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On this special day, am glad to say. I am officially done with Undergrad..
All I can say is To God be Glory!!!

I faced a lot of challenges in my college career..
I felt all sorts of emotions.
But God…
God gave me strength in the midst of turmoil.
Imagine working so hard for something
and with a blink of an eye,
it all disappears.
People have laughed, scorned, and many words have been spoken against me.
But God..
Why should I still be happy after all I have gone through?
Am still happy cos God is no respecter of persons.
His will and Glory is coming out from this broken road.

On this Note..
I say Again… Thank you Jesus.
I give the glory back to You.

Tell yourself..

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You have to tell yourself what you want to hear from others.
If you don’t,
low self esteem will cause you to hold on to the wrong guy
cos he tells you what you want to hear.

First step to true love starts with truly loving yourself.
Tell yourself: I am beautiful, smart, confident, independent..etc.
Don’t settle for less, know your Identity and Worth in Christ!

Reminisces..

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2010-2011 were harder years on me emotionally.
Thank God, 2012 was much better.
Am counting my blessings.
By tomorrow, I will be taking my last exam as an undergrad.
I give all the Glory to God
These yrs in college were good and bad..
Am glad, this journey is coming to an end and another phase of my life is beginning.
To God be the Glory!!

Wise Up Women:

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The man is the person that pursues in the relationship. A woman must NEVER give the man sex if he is chasing her.
If the man is really interested in her he will keep pursuing her until he marries her.
Once you women give the man sex, he has conquered you and why should he settle down with you and commit when you gave him the most valuble, physical intimate connection, sex?
Once you give him that he has conquered you and now why settle when he knows how you are and wants to see something better that is out there?
Women wise up, he will not stay. If he really wants you he will pursue to marry.
If not he will give up which shows you it is about the sex. This eliminates all of the men who are trying to knock you off.
Women seek Jesus, live right and the man of God, the right man will pursue you. You desire what you are.

By: Shafarr Holierthanthou Savoy

What a guy said..

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I was talking to some Christian guys about how females dress.
One of the guys said “I like girls that dress modestly. Modesty is attractive. “

There you go ladies, I didn’t say it. Modesty is very attractive. We have to constantly ask the Lord to help cos it is hard, I know!! I like to dress cute but if my cute dressing is going to cos a guy to stumble then, I need to change it.

Christian ladies: Modesty is our fashion Trend!! Join this trend!

Signs He is not God’s will for you..

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1. He doesn’t have an intimate relationship with God*
2. He doesn’t respect your boundaries.
3. Staying with him compromises your values.
4. Your relationship with him doesn’t enhance your relationship with God.
5. He tries to pressure you into having sex before marriage.
6. He compares you to other girls, you are never good enough for him.
7. He doesn’t like you just the way you are*

*Huge Sign:
God will never give you someone that doesn’t have a relationship with him first.
God will always give you someone that like you just the way you are.