The best way to love your kids..


“The best way to love your kids is to love your spouse. Your relationship with your spouse will affect your children whether you accept this reality or not. Your children are the product of your love. Again, don’t neglect your relationship with your spouse because it will affect your children’s present and future.”-9jagirl4real


Nigerian Guys and Chivalry

A lot of Nigerian guys hate the word “chivalry” or refuse to know that that word exist. I understand our culture supports the idea that men are superior to women, so men feel they don’t need to do much. Your Nigerian lady deserves to be treated like a lady. We make culture not the other way around.

Chivalry is a western custom we need to adopt into our culture. It’s not just about pulling out chairs or opening doors for your lady. It’s about treating your lady like a lady. Most Nigerian guys refuse to recognize chivalry because it acknowledges the woman first. Our aggressive Nigerian men want to be first in everything even before their wives. Practicing chivalry subconsciously affirms to your woman that she comes first before anybody else even you. Guys who practice chivalry are called “gentlemen.” Your Nigerian lady deserves to be with gentleman.

You will discover more benefits as you adopt chivalry into relationship. I know Nigerian women are strong women but we still need our guys to treat us like ladies. Some Nigerian women don’t like chivalry but if your lady loves it, do it!


C’mon, Ladies…
I hate to see ladies who have good men but they treat them terrible

Yes, I went there..
If you have a man that LOVES and TREATS you well..
The least..
The least you can do is to TREAT him WELL!!

No man deserves to be abused in the name of LOVE…
I hate seeing married women abuse their husbands.

If you are a bellicose wife change before it is too late.
God didn’t create marriage to be combat..
You..truculent wife..take Heed..
I warned you.

If he loves you..
Show him LOVE too.

This is how MEN spell love (R-E-S-P-E-C-T)..

Most of the time, we hear about men abusing women but some women are abusive too..

Proverbs 14:1-“a wise woman builds her home but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands.”

You feel like he loves you so much he will stick around no matter how you treat him..
Pls.. You, troglodyte come back to reality..
He will leave you for another lady with a character to match her pulchritude.

Go to counselling..
Do whatever you have to do to save your marriage..

If you are tearing down your husband,
you are tearing down your marriage and your household..
This makes you..