1. Your name is what? Ohh.. I can’t remember that. Can I call you…….?
2. Can you say something in African?
3. Do you know Simba?
4. You are African? Kool!! What country is that?
5. Did you have a zoo in your backyard?
6. (Clicking noises)… What did I say?
7. Do you like it here?
8. Can you tell me a curse word in African?
9. Is your Dad a King?
10. Have you seen Coming to America?
A Blog Review: White Naija Girl 
I really liked this blog when I first saw it. For those of you who liked my “Nigerian Men 101: For Non-Nigerian Women” you will definitely like this blog. She explains our Nigerian culture so well from her point of view. She is also very intelligent; she speaks lots of languages. She is married to Nigerian man so she has a lot of awesome tips for women into Nigerian men. She shares what is like being married to a Nigerian man as non-Nigerian Woman. You will find her blog very juicy and informative.
I am tired of seeing children born to parents who are not ready to be parents. Having a child is a very 
rewarding, exciting experience that some unprepared parents take for granted. Every child deserves parents who completely adore him or her. Honestly, I am tired of seeing kids suffer for other people’s mistakes. I am big on abstinence, but let’s be real; a lot of people are having unprotected sex outside of marriage. I can’t tell you what to do, but please think about your future children and choose wisely.
There are consequences of unprotected sex.. 1. STDs 2. Pregnancy and the list go on..
I care about you having STD, but pregnancy brings children into this world. Pregnancy is something everybody having unprotected sex should be planning for. If you are not planning for a children you should be wrapping things up seriously. Having children should not be a decision made in the heat of pleasure.
Are you financially, emotionally and mentally ready for a child? Our children deserve the best. We need to take this God-given gift seriously.
Getting pregnant and having a child is a big deal. At least one of you guys engaging in this unprotected act should be ready for child(ren) (abortion is just sick). If the guy is not ready for children, then maybe you shouldn’t be having unprotected anything with him. If you are not ready for children, you shouldn’t be having unprotected anything with anyone even if you are on birth controls. Your whole life changes when you bring a child into this world. We need to make better baby friendly decisions. I don’t have children yet, but the last thing I want to do is make decisions that will hurt my children’s future.
Stop thinking about yourself for once and think how your decisions will affect your future children.
“If you spend your life worrying over things you can’t change, you will send yourself to the grave early. Don’t worry!”-9jagirl4real
Black Women, women of other races are taking the majority of your men. This is a serious problem for black women who love their black men. Complaining wouldn’t bring them back. Ladies, you need to start figuring out what is going on or you will lose all your men to other women (God forbid!).
Let’s Talk..
To have an edge over your competition, you have to study their tactics; however, there’s one fact you can’t change. You can’t change who black men are attracted to. There are some black men who are only attracted to black women, but there are some who are only attracted to women of other races and others who are attracted to both. We all have preferences. Everybody has the right to be with whomever they want to be with. No black man should be ridiculed for choosing a woman of another race. Thus, if a black man loves a woman of another race; we have to respect his decision because we can’t change it anyway. Why get mad over something you can’t change in the first place?
Instead of hating on women of other races, you need to start figuring out how to win the competition. So far, you are losing. Big time! If black men have a self hate thing going on that’s their cup of tea to figure out. Black women (especially in the states) have a bad reputation for being loud, obnoxious, and full of drama. So maybe these women are not taking our men. Maybe we are the ones chasing them away..
It’s time to start studying your competition and their tactics to win the game.
Side Note- Black Women, forget the competition, and start considering people outside your race!
John F. Kennedy said “Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country.” International Eagles of Nigeria-an inspirational blog to motivate Nigerians Aboard to start giving back. Coming soon to wordpress in 2014!!!
John F. Kennedy said “Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country.” International Eagles of Nigeria-an inspirational blog to motivate Nigerians Aboard to start giving back. Coming soon to wordpress in 2014!!!
“God will change your story for his GLORY”-9jagirl4real
First of all, I want to say am really a fan.
Love you all truly.
Let’s get real…
Please do us all a favor and know your identity.
You have a lot of potential,
God has blessed each and every one of you with great futures.
You’re so powerful,
I have never seen a group of people so blessed with intelligence, and creativity.
It’s so sad cos some of you don’t really know how powerful you really are.
Stop making excuses,
Nobody is your problem but you.
Don’t blame your dad, society or anything else for your present position in life.
You have a lot of potential for good works.
The problem is that some of you are trying to be each other while God has created each one of you to be unique.
I hate that some of you are not maximizing your full potential.
Your life is better in the real world than prison.
Employ wiser ways to utilize your anger.
Ending up is prison shouldn’t be your aim.
Showing your manhood shouldn’t end you in prison.
change the negative Stigma
Am tired of hearing that most of you are in Prison.
You can break this negative stigma.
Gangs will only lead you to a dead end.
You’re powerful, smart and capable of being a doctors, lawyers, engineers, and anything else you want to be.
Stop letting society define you.
Society want to infuriate you, so that you can do something stupid that will end you in prison.
Come on guys, all of you can’t be rappers or play sports.
Be more proactive not reactive
Remember, you have no excuses.
Bad decisions is not helping matters, obviously.
God created you to be Great.
You are great people that’s why you have so much attack.
Define yourself and stand by it.
Black women need you all to get it together.
If your father wasn’t in your life doesn’t mean you have to continue this trend.
Sleeping with all sorts of women doesn’t make you a man.
Sagging your pants doesn’t make you a man.
Dropping out of high school doesn’t make you a man.
Think! Pause! Prove Society Wrong!
Shooting somebody up doesn’t make you a man.
Smoking weed doesn’t make you a man.
Realize your potential.
Stop letting society define you.
You have the power to change this world around for good.
God has equipped you with good.
Let the negative aspects in your life inspire you to strive to be in a position where you can make a positive change to help someone else.
You have to break this negative stigma.
Get connected to God and let him show what it means to be a man.
Am not saying y’all are bad.
I am tired of hearing that most black men are in prison.
We can change this.
Something gotta give guys..
BTW…
I see you guys as strong, powerful, creative, handsome, productive and the list goes on.
This world needs more intelligent, God-fearing and purpose driven black men..
Sincerely,
A Huge fan!
